body chemistry

[Howard]

I've always wondered what creates good body chemistry? What had happened last Sunday while I was at Robin's house on Sunday we were watching a movie on Direct TV and both of us were snuggled and covered up half way in a blanket cause it was chilly that day and both of us were playing footsie,holding hands and kissing and I had to use the bathroom to urinate and then all of a sudden before urinating I came all over myself without her doing anything to me and I said to her after coming out of the bathroom that she was the first girl that aroused me in 8 years and she told me that I was the first guy that turned her on so I guess that's good body chemistry.What are people's description of it? :confused: Thanks. :)

[eightball61]

I guess it's whats appealing to you or an individual. It can be anything such as a skirt, nice body figure, physical touch in the right spot, or whatever. I guess the chemistry comes when you are feeling turned on in some sorta way. You and your girlfriend started touching each other in ways that you never have been touch before and you felt great and turned on by it. Its a great feeling and I am glad you both were able to share the same feeling at that moment.

[lakegoddess]

Well, that's the first time I've ever heard of it like that!

I agree with eightball... there isn't a set definition of "good body chemistry". Sometimes things just happen. Everyone has their own personal preferences, some of which they're not even aware of (as in your case).

But reading what you have... you've got a lot more than us normal people! :rolleyes:

[Howard]

I guess it's whats appealing to you or an individual. It can be anything such as a skirt, nice body figure, physical touch in the right spot, or whatever. I guess the chemistry comes when you are feeling turned on in some sorta way. You and your girlfriend started touching each other in ways that you never have been touch before and you felt great and turned on by it. Its a great feeling and I am glad you both were able to share the same feeling at that moment.

It must've been her very intoxicating perfume she wears(Estee Lauder) which is very strong every Sunday when I see her,I love to kiss the nape of her neck which smells so good & also it's probably the natural feminine scented odor.I guess it's a few of those that made me discharge.I love to smell her like a dog in heat. :D

[Howard]

Well, that's the first time I've ever heard of it like that!

I agree with eightball... there isn't a set definition of "good body chemistry". Sometimes things just happen. Everyone has their own personal preferences, some of which they're not even aware of (as in your case).

But reading what you have... you've got a lot more than us normal people! :rolleyes:


I do? :confused: How is that possible? :confused:

[Rich]

Howard you just need to get laid already.

[eightball61]

Howard you just need to get laid already.


Amen........ ;)

[Howard]

Howard you just need to get laid already.



Yes Rich I know.most of the messageboards I've been to said almost the very same thing you all guys did.Sorry to be blunt with you guys but I need a woman's touch real bad. :(

[Howard]

someone call an ,a hooker,a ,ANYBODY!This is an emergency! :D

[Howard]

all this talk about body chemistry really got me in the mood yesterday at Robin's house.Her Parents went out for dinner while her older sister was in her room.We were trying to watch a movie and I couldn't even concentrate on the movie just all this intense love making made me feel great.We french kissed which was so amazing & her touch made me heave with excitement and I almost was at the brink of paralyzation.after all that,I pre-d all over myself when I had to go to the bathroom to urinate.I don't know what she's doing but DAMN! That was so arousing! :D

[eightball61]

Look everyone.....Our little Howard has discovered the true nature of becoming a boy to a man :D

Be patient Howard because sooner or latter the right time will come. It's going to be a lovely moment for the both of you. Goodluck ;)

[Rich]

I'm sorry, what intense love making was there? Did I miss something?

Howard, were you just making out or did you have with her on the couch?

[Howard]

Look everyone.....Our little Howard has discovered the true nature of becoming a boy to a man :D

Be patient Howard because sooner or latter the right time will come. It's going to be a lovely moment for the both of you. Goodluck ;)


Yes,Thank You and the horomones are kicking in. :D

I'm hoping she can be a great lover someday when that time arrives.She told me she's somewhat of a germaphobic so what's gonna happen when I cum all over her,she gonna say"ew,"? Give me a break already,it's not like she's never seen white milky liquid before! :rolleyes:

[Howard]

I'm sorry, what intense love making was there? Did I miss something?

Howard, were you just making out or did you have with her on the couch?


no there was no involved just fooling around with each other with clothes on but anyway we were both french kissing,& I couldn't get enough of her,she was so delicious I mean it was that intense.She aroused me so much,I even thanked her for a good time and hopefully when the parents are away again,we can do it all over. :D

[Rich]

Howard-

I understand that is all new to you and that you want it, but I really don't think that you need to be so descriptive.

The "milky white" comment and talk isn't necessary. This isn't a chat line. I think that we're mostly adults on this site and we know what you mean.

You really need to go and get yourself taken care of already. I grew up in Queens as well and I know that there are places that you can go and get a quick blow job or get laid. Go get a $10 hooker BJ on Queens Blvd, down by the 59th Street bridge.

Or go down to 40 duece and get some in one of the booths.

We understand that you're , trust me.

[Howard]

Howard-

I understand that is all new to you and that you want it, but I really don't think that you need to be so descriptive.

The "milky white" comment and talk isn't necessary. This isn't a chat line. I think that we're mostly adults on this site and we know what you mean.

You really need to go and get yourself taken care of already. I grew up in Queens as well and I know that there are places that you can go and get a quick blow job or get laid. Go get a $10 hooker BJ on Queens Blvd, down by the 59th Street bridge.

Or go down to 40 duece and get some in one of the booths.

We understand that you're , trust me.


Ok,I'm sorry Rich.I apologize for my wording. :( I didn't mean to offend you and yes Rich you're right I need to be taken care of job-wise right now cause I might have a possible part-time job at CVS.It's my first priority.I was supposed to go today but the employer had a business meeting to go to so she said I can come back tomorrow after 2pm.Now,that's great news. :)

[cutewit]

hey! maybe it because ur rely comfty with her and you really like her, there are many times ive got quite aroused with someone from just kissing but that someone has to be someone v special!

[Rich]

Arousal is good. You should get aroused.

What you'll find over time, Howard, when you start having and using "it", is that you won't have the prematurity. You'll learn control. Plus, as you use it more....it takes more to make you .

What I will advise though, is that the first time that you do have , is to wear a rubber. You'll probably the moment you enter your GF. Wear a rubber to prevent accidents and until you learn control.

[Howard]

hey! maybe it because ur rely comfty with her and you really like her, there are many times ive got quite aroused with someone from just kissing but that someone has to be someone v special!


Hi Cute.I just feel so comfortable and relaxed now with Robin whenever we sit on the couch together snuggling up and making out with each other.It's something that I haven't felt in quite a long time,A woman's touch.It's so wonderful to get back that arousing feeling again that was lost for a while. :)

[Howard]

Arousal is good. You should get aroused.

What you'll find over time, Howard, when you start having and using "it", is that you won't have the prematurity. You'll learn control. Plus, as you use it more....it takes more to make you .

What I will advise though, is that the first time that you do have , is to wear a rubber. You'll probably the moment you enter your GF. Wear a rubber to prevent accidents and until you learn control.



Believe Me Rich I know all about wearing s and how to put one on and how to use self-control but thanks again for the good advice. :)

[Howard]

What happens if body chemistry between a guy and a girl are different then what happens? :confused:

[Howard]

What do you think about a couple having good body chemistry?

[Howard]

What happens when a boyfriend and girlfriend both have excellent body chemistry cause last Sunday Robin got herself wet from me caressing her legs and thighs while making out and I got slightly wet from the french kissing.Is that good? :confused:

[eightball61]

last Sunday Robin got herself wet from me caressing her legs and thighs while making out and I got slightly wet from the french kissing.Is that good? :confused:



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Is last good? I don't even think that's normal, Howard. Personally, I have never experience that before...... :eek: .....how wierd.

Maybe it means something, Howard!!!

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[Howard]

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Is last good? I don't even think that's normal, Howard. Personally, I have never experience that before...... :eek: .....how wierd.

Maybe it means something, Howard!!!

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I think in my opinion 8Ball,it's considered normal.I don't even know what the hell you're reading.& I don't know what in the hell made you want to say that it's not normal.:mad:

[eightball61]

I think in my opinion 8Ball,it's considered normal.I don't even know what the hell you're reading.& I don't know what in the hell made you want to say that it's not normal.:mad:



You're right Howard & it is normal but next time this happens take the opportunity instead of letting it go.....This could have been your chance for something more.

[Howard]

You're right Howard & it is normal but next time this happens take the opportunity instead of letting it go.....This could have been your chance for something more.


Unfortunately,I blew the opportunity that I had but this Sunday when we watch a movie from Blockbuster and sit together on her couch,I will take the opportunity and grab it.(or grab her,in my case) :D

[eightball61]

Unfortunately,I blew the opportunity that I had but this Sunday when we watch a movie from Blockbuster and sit together on her couch,I will take the opportunity and grab it.(or grab her,in my case) :D



lol............Good Luck with that.

[yourstruly]

Howard, look, I need to be frank with you. I agree with Rich, this is not a chat line. There are forums out there that deal with advice and are a little more...umm....open. You can be as open with wording as you want to on those, but speaking for myself, I don't really want to hear about you and Robin's little escapades on the couch. I mean, I think I admire the fact that you respect her enough to respect her wishes not to have , but come on, we don't need to hear about you exploding because of just french kissing her. That's quite odd.

To be even more frank, I think what you probably need to do is daily (some guys even do it a few times a day)---whatever it takes----to calm yourself down. Masturbating is a normal thing. on your girlfriends' couch or in their bathroom because of intense making out on Sundays is not.

I was a member of another forum, a ual advice site, that was a little risque for even me. But I think it's where you need to be when you discuss your ual issues. I'm not going to solicit it here in this message, but if you want the addy to it, you can send me a private message and I will respond with it.

I'm not saying that you should leave here, I'm just saying that you should take your ual stuff to another more appropriate site.

[yourstruly]

and btw, to me, body chemistry between two people has nothing to do with at all.

body chemistry has everything to do with how one acts in the presence of another. Whether they lean towards the other when talking. Whether they sit back with their hands folded against their chest. Whether they sit with their legs crossed, or with one leg under them. Whether they put an arm around you, or whether they touch you when they talk, etc, etc.

[eightball61]

Howard, look, I need to be frank with you. I agree with Rich, this is not a chat line. There are forums out there that deal with advice and are a little more...umm....open. You can be as open with wording as you want to on those, but speaking for myself, I don't really want to hear about you and Robin's little escapades on the couch. I mean, I think I admire the fact that you respect her enough to respect her wishes not to have , but come on, we don't need to hear about you exploding because of just french kissing her. That's quite odd.
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I agree. These boards are for education/help in relationship but there is a line that needs to be drawn when talking about . Some people come here to seek better for their relationship/marriage. We discuss ways to help the other person out but we don't get technical in words.

Howard, I am sure you were happy just because the moment but we don't need to know that you needed a wet floor sign. Why not just tell us you got happy instead of the extras.....Trust me we'll understand whn you just say that.

[Howard]

Howard, look, I need to be frank with you. I agree with Rich, this is not a chat line. There are forums out there that deal with advice and are a little more...umm....open. You can be as open with wording as you want to on those, but speaking for myself, I don't really want to hear about you and Robin's little escapades on the couch. I mean, I think I admire the fact that you respect her enough to respect her wishes not to have , but come on, we don't need to hear about you exploding because of just french kissing her. That's quite odd.

To be even more frank, I think what you probably need to do is daily (some guys even do it a few times a day)---whatever it takes----to calm yourself down. Masturbating is a normal thing. on your girlfriends' couch or in their bathroom because of intense making out on Sundays is not.

I was a member of another forum, a ual advice site, that was a little risque for even me. But I think it's where you need to be when you discuss your ual issues. I'm not going to solicit it here in this message, but if you want the addy to it, you can send me a private message and I will respond with it.

I'm not saying that you should leave here, I'm just saying that you should take your ual stuff to another more appropriate site.



I'm sorry YT,I apologize for my behavior.It must be the overexcitedness that everytime I go over her house on Sundays she makes my pulse pound fast.But,I know it's definitely a wonderful feeling to be sitting next to a beautiful girl that makes you really happy.

Once again I'm sorry I hope it won't happen again. :(

[Howard]

and btw, to me, body chemistry between two people has nothing to do with at all.

body chemistry has everything to do with how one acts in the presence of another. Whether they lean towards the other when talking. Whether they sit back with their hands folded against their chest. Whether they sit with their legs crossed, or with one leg under them. Whether they put an arm around you, or whether they touch you when they talk, etc, etc.



Thanks YT.After all this time,I thought body chemistry was something else.Boy was I wrong. :rolleyes:

[eightball61]

Howard, it's ok to tell us how excited you are to be around Robin & seek ual advice but you can leave out the "details" of how excited you get.

[Howard]

Howard, it's ok to tell us how excited you are to be around Robin & seek ual advice but you can leave out the "details" of how excited you get.



I'm sorry 8Ball,I hope it won't happen anymore. :(