beaulier
09-01-2010, 06:50 AM
I have no problems with my current girlfriend, it is her mother that I have problems with. Now I have never done anything to this woman yet she dislikes me for some reason. I will say just to start things of that I am turning 22 and my girlfriend is 19.
For some reason my girlfriends mother goes on these rants ever so often about me. She claims that I have no goals (which is not true). I am in school right now working on my undergrad. After I get my undergrad I plan to go to teachers college or law school. I don't see where I don't have any goals.
She also claims that I have no ambition. Again, not true. I have alot of ambition. I always want to be the best and I am very competitive.
Her mother goes on and on about how I have no morals. Still, I am not seeing it. I am monogamous, I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs. I am very good to her daughter. She goes on about how I am not family oriented and marriage is a big issue for her. Right now I am not thinking about mariage. Does she seriously want me to be? Also, is it my fault that my familt doesn't stay in contact with me or that I don't stay in contact with them? Does it make me a bad person?
She also seems to think I am lazy. I just don't see why. True I don't have a job, but does that make a person lazy? I don't think so. If I had a job I would be going to it everyday. It just so happens the market is not in my area for a job right now. I have tried to get a job, but nothing has happened on that front. Does anyone else think the mother is a for bringing this up?
Also apparently it is my fault that I don't take her daughter anywhere. The cause of the problem might be the restrictive rles her mother imposes on her. I can't take her anyhwere because she needs to be home at night and can't stay anywhere with me (her brother on the other hand has no rules).
I am writing this because I really don't know what her problem is. It is driving me insane because it is making me want to leave this relationship. I cannot stand the woman. I try to ignore her, but she doesn't go away. Hopefully I will get some insight into this from someone here.
Thanks.
For some reason my girlfriends mother goes on these rants ever so often about me. She claims that I have no goals (which is not true). I am in school right now working on my undergrad. After I get my undergrad I plan to go to teachers college or law school. I don't see where I don't have any goals.
She also claims that I have no ambition. Again, not true. I have alot of ambition. I always want to be the best and I am very competitive.
Her mother goes on and on about how I have no morals. Still, I am not seeing it. I am monogamous, I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs. I am very good to her daughter. She goes on about how I am not family oriented and marriage is a big issue for her. Right now I am not thinking about mariage. Does she seriously want me to be? Also, is it my fault that my familt doesn't stay in contact with me or that I don't stay in contact with them? Does it make me a bad person?
She also seems to think I am lazy. I just don't see why. True I don't have a job, but does that make a person lazy? I don't think so. If I had a job I would be going to it everyday. It just so happens the market is not in my area for a job right now. I have tried to get a job, but nothing has happened on that front. Does anyone else think the mother is a for bringing this up?
Also apparently it is my fault that I don't take her daughter anywhere. The cause of the problem might be the restrictive rles her mother imposes on her. I can't take her anyhwere because she needs to be home at night and can't stay anywhere with me (her brother on the other hand has no rules).
I am writing this because I really don't know what her problem is. It is driving me insane because it is making me want to leave this relationship. I cannot stand the woman. I try to ignore her, but she doesn't go away. Hopefully I will get some insight into this from someone here.
Thanks.