Someone you see only once in a while

[MENAM]

I live in an apartment and there is this really cute girl that lives on the other side of the same building. The only time I see her is when she opens her mailbox, or when she is going to her car. We have exchanged smiles a couple times and that's about it. What will be the best way to approach her? Help this shy guy....

[eightball61]

Next time you exchange a smile then add a "hello" to it. A "hello" can open up for a conversation but also allows you to get more comfortable with a possible approach to her sometime down the road....Goodluck

ps
hows that internet girl going? Are you both still talking?

[MENAM]

Wow, I am surprised to see someone actually remembered that. We were talking about meeting up at a mall, but the day before, she told me that she had got back together with her ex-boyfriend.....

[eightball61]

Sorry to hear about that but seems like you moved on well so have fun and try to click up with your neighbor. :p Keep us posted ;)

[Howard]

Menam,You can say hello my name is so and so,exchange phone numbers,emails or just go out for some coffee and cake to a small cafe or someplace where the 2 of you can talk for a while.Good luck Menam. ;)

[MENAM]

Menam,You can say hello my name is so and so,exchange phone numbers,emails or just go out for some coffee and cake to a small cafe or someplace where the 2 of you can talk for a while.Good luck Menam. ;)
Thanks, but I think that's something I can do after having a couple conversations with her.

[Rich]

If you know what mailbox is hers, then leave a note on it or in it.

Along the lines of.....Hi, I live in Apt #? and I see you around sometimes. You take my breath away. If you aren't commited, I'd love to take you out for a cup of coffee or lunch. Here's my number if you're interested. Or if you're shy (:-)), you can drop a note in my mailbox. Then sign your name.

That's called casting a line into the water to see what bites.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

[Howard]

Thanks, but I think that's something I can do after having a couple conversations with her.



That's great.good luck menam. :)

[MENAM]

Well I haven't seen her recently, but if something happens, I will post about it, of course.
:D

[Howard]

Well I haven't seen her recently, but if something happens, I will post about it, of course.
:D



Menam,are you afraid of approaching her? :confused:

[MENAM]

Afraid? Have you read the entire topic?

[Howard]

Afraid? Have you read the entire topic?

Oh,I'm sorry Menam.

How is everything going with the girl? :)