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seavidae
05-14-2005, 08:55 PM
Hi!
The last 3 girls I've met (and I like) have boyfriends.
This is becoming so... When I'll meet the next one... I bet she has boyfriend too... I like to keep in touch with them, maybe one day they'll break up... who knows...
What shall I do? Wish me a little luck... :D
eightball61
05-15-2005, 03:26 AM
The only thing you can do is not give up.....


Goodluck ;)
Diablo
05-15-2005, 03:34 AM
Sometimes you just have to steal some guy's girlfriend.
Rich
05-15-2005, 12:52 PM
Yeah, and?

So keep looking.

Expand your search parameters.

Don't get discouraged. There are more women born than men. So that means there are more women to choose from.
MDeezy
05-15-2005, 11:22 PM
the responce I'm sure you dont want to hear.

Dont worry about it, when you relax and not worry about finding someone is when you'll find someone.
Howard
05-16-2005, 09:36 PM
Don't worry sea.Don't give up.You'll find the one to talk to.Good Luck! ;)
seavidae
05-25-2005, 05:07 PM
Almost 1 year and still nothing... All people around me seem to have someone... I am very happy for them, I really am... but sometimes I look at them with little envy... This is not good... I think it's time for a miracle :)
eightball61
05-25-2005, 05:35 PM
Be patient......You want to be paired off with someone that is right for you. You don't want to be in a relationship where you are unhappy. It's better off to be patient and not rush things because rushing will not always get what you want. So be patient and don't give up meeting new people.

Goodluck & Keep Up the Faith :)
Howard
05-25-2005, 09:20 PM
Well,it takes time,Sea.I wish you well in your search for the right woman.Good Luck. :)
Howard
05-25-2005, 09:21 PM
Sometimes you just have to steal some guy's girlfriend.


How do you know it can be done?
Diablo
05-27-2005, 01:55 AM
That's how I usually get one. ;)
Howard
05-30-2005, 11:59 PM
That's how I usually get one. ;)



But,I wouldn't want to steal someone's girlfriend.I would like to be faithful to my girl and not cheat on her.It just wouldn't be right.
seavidae
05-31-2005, 09:18 PM
one more girl with a boyfriend... well.. I guess they're all taken! :D
Guys... please pray for me... I hope the next one is single 'cause this situation is getting so ugly... all girls I like have a boyfriend - this must come to an end!
eightball61
05-31-2005, 09:26 PM
one more girl with a boyfriend... well.. I guess they're all taken! :D
Guys... please pray for me... I hope the next one is single 'cause this situation is getting so ugly... all girls I like have a boyfriend - this must come to an end!


how you meeting these girls? Where were you and what were you doing when you met the last few taken girls?

Remember, try to stay patient and positive ;)
Howard
05-31-2005, 11:18 PM
one more girl with a boyfriend... well.. I guess they're all taken! :D
Guys... please pray for me... I hope the next one is single 'cause this situation is getting so ugly... all girls I like have a boyfriend - this must come to an end!


I'll pray for you Sea.I wish you well.keep trying.:)
seavidae
06-01-2005, 07:26 PM
how you meeting these girls? Where were you and what were you doing when you met the last few taken girls?

Remember, try to stay patient and positive ;)

Well... I met one at school... a second one at the theatre... a third one through Internet... another one at school again.. oh boy :D Sure I'm lucky! :rolleyes:
eightball61
06-01-2005, 07:43 PM
I asked that question because I didn't know if you were meeting these girls all in the same place. This could be a sign that right now is not your time. Meeting the right person normally happens unexpectedly, so again please be patient and don't give up. ;)
Howard
06-01-2005, 09:36 PM
You can always go to social clubs to meet beautiful women or you can join an organization that deals with pairing up guys and girls for friendship/dating.Good Luck. :)
seavidae
06-15-2005, 05:20 PM
When I started this thread I wasn't upset .. I thought that's the way life is... I wrote all these without being upset... Now it's getting worse as it happened one more time. A friend of mine introduced me a nice girl (he told me that she's single and she wants to meet someone).. we talked.. we had a real good time. I asked my friend to call her and tell her that I would like to go out with her. Unfortunately the answer was NO and one of the reasons was that she is now with her last boyfriend. I don't know what to think anymore.. I studied her gestures and everything was going perfect..this body language is a real fake... don't believe in signs like these. Or maybe I wish too much to have someone and I misunderstand lots of gestures....
I try to think positive but is really hard now... and my hope is not like before... I start to think what's wrong... am I the problem? I don't think that I want someone anymore... maybe it's best for me to be single.. at least until a miracle will happen. I wish you all good luck! At least you out there to be happy.
seavidae
06-16-2005, 04:11 PM
well.. I would really appreciate some reactions... thanks
eightball61
06-16-2005, 04:26 PM
The process to dating is "You Win a Few & You lose A lot". That is pretty typical for everyone so again you are not alone & "NO" its not you.

Every girl has differences on what they are looking for in a partner. If you like to know if it's something you may be doing then we can't tell you here because we know little about you. My suggestion is ask a close female friend if she would be willing to go on a "friend" date with you so she can analyze your moves. This may be able to help you ease your mind in knowing its not your fault or maybe fixing a few things.
seavidae
06-16-2005, 04:56 PM
I had girlfriends before and they were pretty girls. This is not the problem. The problem is that in the last time (1 year!) all the girls I met and I liked have boyfriends and this is driving me nuts! I want to meet a single one... is this so hard??? :(
eightball61
06-16-2005, 05:00 PM
I had girlfriends before and they were pretty girls.


Maybe you just need to lower your expectations.....
seavidae
06-16-2005, 05:02 PM
Maybe you just need to lower your expectations.....

Well, everyone has his own standards. I can't have anyone just to not be single anymore. She needs to be smart and pretty. I don't think I'm asking too much.
eightball61
06-16-2005, 05:30 PM
Well, everyone has his own standards. .


You are right & we all have different standards. Your problem is that you want to know "why" so desperately & the only way to figure this out is the "process of elimination". I am not telling you to change your style but if you think something is wrong with "you" then "you" will need to figure that out for yourself.
SALly
06-16-2005, 05:43 PM
Why are you not with your previous girlfriends?
seavidae
06-16-2005, 05:45 PM
Why are you not with your previous girlfriends?

I guess I don't want that, that's why.
SALly
06-16-2005, 05:51 PM
Well hun you just need to keep trying. Don't get down on yourself. Try going to different places that you normally don't go.
eightball61
06-16-2005, 06:01 PM
Well, I'll tell you what's wrong. Bad luck, this is wrong with me.


One more piece of advice......

Being negative doesn't help you either.
SALly
06-16-2005, 06:07 PM
Do you have or know anyone with a puppy? Or what about a little brother or sister or neice or nephew? Take them to the park. Puppies and guys babysitting little kids are usually chic magnets.....
seavidae
06-16-2005, 06:26 PM
You're all right. Being negative doesn't help me at all. I won't give up. I'll make it finally.
Thank you all for support. I really appreciate it.

Please close this thread.
Howard
06-16-2005, 09:29 PM
Don't feel too hard on yourself seavidae.Keep on trying even if it takes a long time.You'll find the right one,eventually.Good Luck. ;)