Am i patheticaly infatuated???

[cutewit]

ok, im young and i know to young to have any real feelings(as you say) for some1 but they are real cas i feel them and they hurt. i met this guy, he was so weird but the moment i saw him, i liked him, he wasnt my type at all but i thought he was beautiful. i was with him on/off for 9 months never knowin where i was with him and one day he stoped calling. never spoke to me again, i never knew why cas the last time i saw him wen 2getha he wouldnt let me leave.
i dont no why that was last june and i still cant get my head round it. what did i do wrong can some one please stop my unsurfferable droning please!!!!

[eightball61]

. what did i do wrong can some one please stop my unsurfferable droning please!!!!


Your mind won't let it go because you never got the proper closure. If he left you hanging then it best he stays that way because if you try to contact him again then it may setup for more confusion on you. We all get over things at differents rates. This guy must have had a good impact on you if you still feel something for him but he left you hanging and a real man does not act like that. It could have been because he was young also and was to immature to end things the adult way. You are young but you have the sense on what a mature relationship is suppose to be like. Allow more time to go through and when you are ready go see that mature relationship....you'll be happy when that happens. ;) Take care

[Howard]

Did you call him since last June? :confused:

[cutewit]

yes i did call him,txt him, email him not over the top. i even seen him at this festival and he said hi, gave me a hug then walked off aimlessly. i felt so pathetic almost angry but i still txt him and get the odd reply and i c him sometime around town and i say hi, he nods

[eightball61]

i c him sometime around town and i say hi, he nods


Thats him saying that he still acknowledge's you but won't take it beyond that. This has been a year and its time to put it at rest. You will never get the proper closure from him nor you will be able to pull of the "Butterfly Effect" and change the past. In life we meet some fantastic people and some others we wish we could just erase from our memory. The only thing you can do is grieve for a little while longer and then accept it so you can move on.

[Rich]

If you had with him, then he was probably just using you for but had no other feelings for you beyond that. He got tired of you and moved on.

He never said good bye or anything because he doesn't respect you or whatever you might be feeling.

Forget about him.

For the most part young guys are just looking to get laid by however many girls that they can get. I know I was in my teens and very early 20's.

[cutewit]

hey, i never slept with him although i had slept with people before, i had been open to it, i wanted to and he wanted to but he had always said that he wanted to find the perfect moment as he was a virgin, so i know it had nothing to do with but my kinder thought was that he was scared of the commitment we were heading for

[Howard]

yes i did call him,txt him, email him not over the top. i even seen him at this festival and he said hi, gave me a hug then walked off aimlessly. i felt so pathetic almost angry but i still txt him and get the odd reply and i c him sometime around town and i say hi, he nods


It's possible that he just wants to become less than a couple.most likely best friends but nothing beyond that.

[perplexity1]

he clearly doesn't feel the same way, so you should probably move on

[Howard]

How's everything been Cutewit?