blondiexo
09-23-2010, 04:28 PM
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years and currently live together. Recently he has began being a teaching assistant to a young, female teacher. My boyfriend has told me that the teacher has been talking to him for about 50 minutes - basically everyday - before she begins to teach the 1 hour 15 minute long class. And the things she talks about with him don't even have anything to do with the class. She even tells him personal, private things about other students - which in my opinion really is not very professional. Now he seems so fascinated by her and everything she does. She has a motorcycle, now he wants to get his motorcycle lisence. He just seems to want to do whatever she does - and it's like a new thing everyday. I've let him know that it bothers me that they have these long conversasions, how close they seem to be getting and that I've noticed a change in him and he just says things like "You're so insecure" "I'm getting really tired of hearing this", etc. He says I'm being irrational. Now he barely tells me anything. I would just really like some advice from someone outside the relationship and see am I just being irrational? Should I calm down and just assume that this is normal behaviour since they're working together?