what makes some1 attractive?

[cutewit]

i need some reply. ok im attractive(well.....im decent)
i have a good personality, im laid-back and funny! so i think im a good person, so i wondering what makes a person attractive, is that actually anything you can do to make someone like you or is all just there, nothing you can do? some1 please reply and answer what makes someone attractive and is there anything you can do about it?

[eightball61]

Self-Esteem, Self-Respect, & Self-Confidence makes one feel attractive.




Why is it you needed such a quick reply?

[Rich]

Most times beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

All that you can do is to be the best person that you can be in every way and then someone will find you.

Have good hygene. Take care of your body and keep in generally good shape. Have intelligence, a sense of humore, a decent job, ambition, the ability to love, maturity, wisdom, respect and honesty.

If you can go about your life and bring those traits to the table, then you'll attract a like minded soul.

The worst thing that you can do is to present a false front. That is, being someone that you're really not. A lot of times relationships get in trouble because people change who they are to land someone and then they revert back to who they originally were and that's not what that one person was looking for. Sort of like false advetising. Don't do that.

Just be an all around good person.

[Howard]

nice body
nice hair
intelligent
funny
outgoing
good personality

[cutewit]

ok the reason i asked for a quick reply, is there a lad in my year(ok please dont disregard me for being so young im in my last year at school) hes quite similar to me hes a alternative in the "it" circle but still not the main candidate, hes really funny and sweet but i cant talk to him, i dont no what to say with out appearing to like him cas i never really talk to him so if i start now it will seem so obvious, and what to say??

[eightball61]

i never really talk to him so if i start now it will seem so obvious,


In order to gain his interest I would assume it's better that you are "obvious" about the whole thing.

The longer you hold off the more you stand a chance of him going onto someone else. You don't want to take your time at this. You want to go for the goal before you lose it. A good conversation start is the secret word "hello", so say that the next time you see him.

[Rich]

And what would be wrong with his knowing that you like him? You do!

Don't play games. He has the same insecurities as you.

Just go up and talk to him.

[Howard]

All that you can do is to be the best person that you can be in every way and then someone will find you.


That is true.Rich,I agree with you there. :)