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muaskao
10-03-2010, 06:19 AM
So my g/f and I have been going out for awhile now and this really irks me all the time. We had lunch the other day and while I was talking to her she just looks the other way and watches people in the restaurant walk around, people serving food, and all that. I asked her why she wasn't paying attention to me, her answer was " oh I am"... okay... sure... I mean when someone isn't paying attention and is looking the other way that clearly means I don't give a rats ass about anything you have to say, am I right??? This has been going on for awhile now and I don't know what her deal is. She bored of me? Does she has ADHD?? I was beginning to believe that she had ADHD.. holy hell. I could never get her attention like how I used to. Whats going on here????!??!

Later on that day. My cousin came over and we were playing some video games. She would always look at my cousin, over and over again. She never took a glance at me, not once. I told her straight up" why are you looking at my cousin"... she got mad and called me mean... but why would she get mad if she knew it wasn't true.. am I right?? She was pissed off after that. But what do you think is wrong with her? I've been trying my butt off to get her direct attention. Nothings working...

She doesn't pay attention to me. She always thinks she's right but her lame excuses just cover up so much b.s. whats her deal? I was thinking about breaking up her because I'm tired of her not telling what's wrong with her, never telling me where she's going. I mean I've been anal about things like that because she was never like that before. I have a feeling that she's doing something behind my back.

Am I just over thinking too many things here?? I feel like I'm not.. she changed or something. I've always been trying to figure out a solution to this ing problem but she never listens to a word I say... So whats your input on this?

Anon1986
10-11-2010, 07:35 AM
So my g/f and I have been going out for awhile now and this really irks me all the time. We had lunch the other day and while I was talking to her she just looks the other way and watches people in the restaurant walk around, people serving food, and all that. I asked her why she wasn't paying attention to me, her answer was " oh I am"... okay... sure... I mean when someone isn't paying attention and is looking the other way that clearly means I don't give a rats ass about anything you have to say, am I right??? This has been going on for awhile now and I don't know what her deal is. She bored of me? Does she has ADHD?? I was beginning to believe that she had ADHD.. holy hell. I could never get her attention like how I used to. Whats going on here????!??!

Later on that day. My cousin came over and we were playing some video games. She would always look at my cousin, over and over again. She never took a glance at me, not once. I told her straight up" why are you looking at my cousin"... she got mad and called me mean... but why would she get mad if she knew it wasn't true.. am I right?? She was pissed off after that. But what do you think is wrong with her? I've been trying my butt off to get her direct attention. Nothings working...

She doesn't pay attention to me. She always thinks she's right but her lame excuses just cover up so much b.s. whats her deal? I was thinking about breaking up her because I'm tired of her not telling what's wrong with her, never telling me where she's going. I mean I've been anal about things like that because she was never like that before. I have a feeling that she's doing something behind my back.

Am I just over thinking too many things here?? I feel like I'm not.. she changed or something. I've always been trying to figure out a solution to this ing problem but she never listens to a word I say... So whats your input on this?


Hey man...my girlfriend actually has adhd and I will tell you, just from a few months of dating it can be difficult. When we watch tv or something she will focus on something else, then I'll try to talk to her and she doesnt hear a word I'm saying. It hurts me a bit because we dont get much time together so when we are together I want to talk. She zones out sometimes and it gets very frustrating.....my advice to you is to maybe try to bring this up to her make it clear this is something you feel is getting in the way of your happiness with her. I don't think shes cheating on you...it could very well be that she has ADHD who knows?! Just stay patient man...keep us posted on how things work out.