Axio
10-18-2010, 12:32 PM
Hello guys, my gf and I have been dating for a yr now and soon to be married in Dec. She is a very good person and is very straight foward, doesn't bullshit around. The one thing that bugs me is that she is very hyper-sensative and can flip that switch and become sort of hateful. Well she can get down right mean and ugly, and then lock herself in the bedroom, most of it to me is kinda silly and I almost wanna tell her to grow up. I learn to pick and choose my battles with her, she very good at arguing and I pretty much give up. Well, and then there is this, I pretty much feel like im sleeping on eggshells with her cuz she turns nasty towards me when i try to touch her or hold her while she sleeps, she tells she can't help and don't even try, so i stop. Well last nite she walked into the bedroom and i had asked if everything was ok, she unloaded on me and me became very nasty, i got upset and slept in the spare bedroom, she tells me she was sleep walking and doesn't recall anything. So i then told her from now on I'm sleeping in the spare bedroom, she got very upset and said if we can't sleep together, we might as well break up, I explanied to her my reason, she pretty much wants to end it now and Im actting foolish. So I then asked her if this is what you want, ill go to the bank and splitt he money tomm and you can have your way, she then got upset because i didn't try and stop her from leaving. Sometimes I feel like my feelings take a back seat and it's all about her emotions. Now what!!!!, do i let her leave or try kiss her ass or is this my fault, please help me!!!:(