out with the old, in with the new?

[sammie17]

For those who dont know me, I'm sammie. I have a "stalker" named danny. we went to prom and now he wont leave me alone. BUt thats not wat I wanted to post. I simply just wanted to say that I am now dating.it's not danny.

ok, so who is this guy? his name is brian, I started dating 2 days ago. he isn't a stranger to me, we've dated b4. we first broke it off when I noticed him getting a little too friendly with my was then best friend. we dated 2 more times after that because but both weren't sure what we wanted so it never lasted long. After awhile, during one of the times that we were dating, I found out that he cheated on me with my best friend. I got pissed and hurt. I didn't really speak to him again.

BUt in march I ran into him at his work. We started talking and we've become close again. He told me last week that I was the only one who ever saw thru his image and called him on his bluffs.

The problem is that I still love him, and yes I realize that the word "LOVE" is a strong word to use at my age but I know that I do love him. I get butterflies in my tummy when I think about him. I cant stand not talking to him. he makes me feel good when I'm w/him. I get all goofy when he's with me.

okay so back to the top, I'm dating him again. and I'm still sceptical about his motives. shud I just relax and see wat happens? or shud I break it off before I get in over my head?

here's wat went on during our first time in the dating boat. well, we dated the first time for 1 &1/2 yrs. we loved eachother very much even after we broke it off, the passion between us was still hot. I starteddating him when I was 15 and he was 17. sophmore & senior. we broke it off shortly after he was 18 & I was 16. he graduated and became a prick. NOw toady is his 19th bdaY AND i'M stuck in a predikament.( I'm aware I cant spell)

look I just want some in sight as to wat i shud do aboutmy feelings.

please does any1 have any advice that they cud spare? :confused:

[eightball61]

I get butterflies in my tummy when I think about him. I cant stand not talking to him. he makes me feel good when I'm w/him. I get all goofy when he's with me.

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^^ What do you want to do about your feelings. You like the guy and your feelings are totally natural. My suggestion is take things slow and work on a good relationship and see what happens.

ps
As for the "stalker" he may not stop and if he continues you can seek pressing charges or threat him with that.

[sammie17]

thnx but I have a feeling that if I mention that I have a bf, which happens 2b some1 he no-s he mite bak off.

[eightball61]

Its none of his damn business if you have a boyfriend. If you are still communicating with him then don't call him a stalker because you are allowing it to happen. He will continue until you do something.....

[Rich]

Why go down the same rough road?

You're infatuated with this guy but obviously he isn't with you because he cheated on you. He disrespected you totally by doing that, but I guess you don't think that highly of yourself to care about that.

Guys at that age are just looking to get laid. He knows that you're still hot for him and he just wants you for .

Be advised that he will hurt and dump you again after he done with you. But if you want to ride that rocket for the short exciting trip, then go ahead. Just don't or complain when you get hurt again.

Also be cafeful of STD's. Guaranteed he's till playing around. Protect yourself.

[sammie17]

im not in it for ! I've never had ! damn it rich! I dont do that! I'll do that when Im ready. when I dated him the first time, I never gave him that. I wont do that. ewww

[Rich]

OK.

Then I guess maybe that's one possibility as to why he cheated on you.

If you won't have with him this time either, what makes you think that he won't cheat again?

Just asking.

[Diablo]

Okay, so you love him. That's no guarantee that it'll work out. He's young and so are you, so the odds against it lasting are high. If you can remain grounded about that, then start running around with him if you want.