The Brother Zone

[Yuxic]

Well the title tells the story. There is a girl at school that I just can't stop loving. and well, I over heard that she loved me as a brother and well it kinda was like a shot in the heart to me.

Perhaps there are people here with experience on Brother zone and could give me tips? I can't stand being seen upon as a brother. I want it to be a relationship. If there is anyways to save me please!

-I basically do whatever told.. lemme guess big mistake right?

Tips please, it would be greatly appreciated.

[Howard]

In what ways does she love you like a brother?

[smackie9]

Well the title tells the story. There is a girl at school that I just can't stop loving. and well, I over heard that she loved me as a brother and well it kinda was like a shot in the heart to me.

Perhaps there are people here with experience on Brother zone and could give me tips? I can't stand being seen upon as a brother. I want it to be a relationship. If there is anyways to save me please!

-I basically do whatever told.. lemme guess big mistake right?

Tips please, it would be greatly appreciated.

Yup dude you got it. You are a wuss and wusses are not bf material. Being their friend is the kiss of death. Going the friend route tells me that you lack confidence in yourself, and that's a deal breaker. You do not fall in love with someone that you are not in a relationship with. They can smell it on you it like a poisonous vapor and drop you into the brother or friends zone. You don't give them anything of yourself unless they earn it. Bad boys get the girls right? They are not really bad at all, what they are is confident and they are not needy or eager to please so they attract. If you find someone attractive give them a few compliments and then ignore them, walk away. Then later on give her a little acknowledgment but don't show eagerness, be calm cool and maybe distant. Then tell you WANT to take her out...say it that way so she has no choice but to say yes. Don't be saying "maybe" we could go out sometime, or "if " your not busy we could.... your giving her options, never give them options. Eye contact and directness, and a smile is important. Don't be lookin down when you talk to her. That is a sign of being submissive and girls pick up on body language like that in an instant. Next step, never answer texts or calls right away, give it an hour or two and never tell them exactly why you didn't answer right away...be vague with your answers. You need to be not so available to her. So like one poster said in here once, everything you have been doing, now do the opposite.

[andwilson90]

Well the title tells the story. There is a girl at school that I just can't stop loving. and well, I over heard that she loved me as a brother and well it kinda was like a shot in the heart to me.

Perhaps there are people here with experience on Brother zone and could give me tips? I can't stand being seen upon as a brother. I want it to be a relationship. If there is anyways to save me please!

-I basically do whatever told.. lemme guess big mistake right?

Tips please, it would be greatly appreciated.

It would be better for you to wait for sometime before taking any decision. First, make it clear that she likes you as a brother or boyfriend. If she likes you as a boyfriend then you should continue talking with her, but if she makes you her own brother, then story would be different.