i need help with my girlfriend

[vette9999]

hey i have a problem with our relationship and its not me its her! ok me my girl started going out in april after 2 weeks of knowing eachother my girl says she likes me and she liked are first month of going out but she has problems opening her heart to me and we havent even kissed or gon out a date and ive tried to kiss her and go out on dates but she says she wants are first kisss to be special and she just so busy all the time for me to take her out but we have excellent phone conversations but only being together for a month and a half she has trouble talking to me i meen when i call her i talk most of the conversation and she just listens.but she likes me but i really like! some help please i really like this girl and i dont to lose her she has everything i want in a girl!!

[Diablo]

How old are you and how often do you call her? If you call her a lot, you could be pushing her away. The whole thing sounds one sided. You talk, she listens. She doesn't want a kiss just now, no date after a month and a half. Lose her? You ain't got 'er. I can understand being busy, but by now you two should have gone out. I would slack off on the calls; not as a getback thing, just ease up a bit because she seems to be taking you for granted. When a woman is attracted to a man, he can't get her to shut up. She's a long way from that.

[eightball61]

Different people show affection at different speeds. She may be extemely slow and if she is then you'll have to compromise with that. I am not doubting that she does like you but she needs a little more time and security to know that you may be the right one.

I really hate to sit here and make up things about her. The only thing that you can do is be patient with her. If you force the issue then you will only push her further back. It doesn't hurt from time to time to try to make that extra move but if she pulls away then respect her decision and wait till the next date.

[Howard]

Vette,Maybe you could try to talk to your girlfriend again and have a long discussion. Good Luck. :)

[Canuck3522]

I hate to say it, but it sounds like this is not going to work out. You should move on and find someone who can reciprocate your feelings.

[Rich]

You and your GF sound real young. You probably have a girl who is real shy and who is dominated by her parents.

If you don't want to deal with this type of girl and would like to move things along quicker in your relationship, then I think that you're going to have to find someone else.

Just know that if you stay with this girl that you're going to move along at her slow pace.

Either accept how she is or move on

[teejaye18]

this is exactly the way my relationship is now. she's probably shy and slow to take action this isnt such a bad thing if you really like this girl u wouldnt want to lose her, give it some time.maybe she'll come around

[Howard]

this is exactly the way my relationship is now. she's probably shy and slow to take action this isnt such a bad thing if you really like this girl u wouldnt want to lose her, give it some time.maybe she'll come around


TJ,I've been seeing this girl Robin for 8 months now and it took her a little while to show feelings for me and vice versa.She also tells me that her and I have an emotional bond that keeps us together. :)