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phoenix1980
11-02-2010, 09:40 AM
Hello! I m new to this forum.
I wish love and health to everyone.

It turned out that my boyfriend doesn t like the fact that he s a man. He complains about it all the time, dresses like a woman, share my make up and clothes. Sometimes, when he s more energetic during , he tells me that s how he wants me to make love to him (anal ). He calls himself "" and when i m beautiful he says he s jeaulous and that he d like to be woman like me. He also wants to have boob surgery.
I have freaked out.
I don t like woman. I m 30 years old and already diapppointed about how pathetic men are during .
I m soooooo disappointed, don t know what to do. He s a GREAT person, he loves me so much, and i love him because he has done many things for me.
I met him in my martial arts class. He was so strong and masculine. Never had occured to me that this would happen.
:'-(

smackie9
11-08-2010, 02:34 PM
Wow that's a tough one. There are so many people that struggle everyday because they are so unhappy with the they are. I have a subscription on YouTube of a girl that wants to be a boy. Over the last 2 years I'm watched and listened as she became a he. It's not just ual, it's very tied to the emotional too. He has wanted this probably since puberty or not long after. Why now? I guess he is emotionally ready to do his transformation. Not sure why he would get into a heteroual relationship to do it, that is up to him to answer. Sorry you are heart broken. Life does throws you some crazy curve balls don't it?

You find men are so pathetic ually? Do you teach at all? Most guys are eager to learn to satisfy their partner....everyone likes and does things differently. Showing, telling and demanding what you want is half the fun I think. Anyways you keep in touch. Let us know how you are holding up.

Creek Side
11-08-2010, 10:58 PM
Smackie best. This is very tough for you. Please... stay in touch.

eloquent
11-16-2010, 12:51 PM
My advice is if you can tell him to start loving himself for what he is and what he is not, then things will be better for him and how he sees life. nothing happens when he continuously criticize himself.