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cutewit
05-23-2005, 11:00 PM
would it be wrong to get invovled with someone who is heaverly in to drugs? i dont expect them to change but will it do more harm than good as a non-druguser myself

Diablo
05-24-2005, 02:14 AM
You don't want to for a variety of reasons. First of all, drug-heads od and it's best not to have a relationship at the time. Secondly, if he/she gets busted and you're there, you could get busted on a guilt by association thing. Cops don't lose sleep over locking up innocent people. Also, the drugs come first with those people. If you have a date that conflicts with a chance to get high, you'll be stood up. You really ought to find someone more compatable. One being into drugs and the other not is not a small incompatability.

eightball61
05-24-2005, 03:36 AM
You don't want to for a variety of reasons. First of all, drug-heads od and it's best not to have a relationship at the time. Secondly, if he/she gets busted and you're there, you could get busted on a guilt by association thing. Cops don't lose sleep over locking up innocent people. Also, the drugs come first with those people. If you have a date that conflicts with a chance to get high, you'll be stood up. You really ought to find someone more compatable. One being into drugs and the other not is not a small incompatability.

Good insight Diablo....

I would also like to add that when someone is heavely into drugs its hard for them to get off from it unless professional help was involved. You need to think about the future and what things would be like. If you are not a drug user then you want to stay that way. Getting into a relationship with a drug user your gonna have to accept them for that.

Personally, I think you can do better since there are millions of singles out there. Try to stick to your own kind..... When you have to question the possibilities of a relationship that alone should be a "red flag" to tell you to stay away.

SALly
05-24-2005, 01:49 PM
I agree....why bother getting messed up in it.

Howard
05-24-2005, 09:39 PM
I don't think you'd want to.You wouldn't want your life to be messed up as well.make the right decision. :)