minilove
12-03-2010, 10:42 AM
A week ago, my boyfriend and I broke up. He was the one who initiated the break up, he said we were fighting too much, and he just couldn't take it anymore. Yes, we had been fighting for a while, but our arguments always started out simple...small problems used to trigger them, they blew up into bigger arguments. I called him a day after the break up to apologize, but he still didn't want to reconcile. We met up almost every day since the break up, we kiss, we talk, we have , we basically do everything a couple would do. We even promised eachother that we wouldn't date other people while doing all of this.
The problem is, whenever I ask him to commit, to accept that we're ina relationship, he says he doesn't want to. He likes the fact that we're a couple like this, but he doesn't acknowledge the fact that we're together. It pains me that, everything points to the fact that we're together, except, he doesn't want to acknowledge it. He says it's because he's scared we'll start arguing again.
I really don't know what to do now. I like how things are now, and I don't think a simple sentence would change anything. I don't want to loose him.
The problem is, whenever I ask him to commit, to accept that we're ina relationship, he says he doesn't want to. He likes the fact that we're a couple like this, but he doesn't acknowledge the fact that we're together. It pains me that, everything points to the fact that we're together, except, he doesn't want to acknowledge it. He says it's because he's scared we'll start arguing again.
I really don't know what to do now. I like how things are now, and I don't think a simple sentence would change anything. I don't want to loose him.