soconfused
05-29-2005, 11:35 AM
I am a 19 year old girl and my boyfriend and I have been together on and off for almost two years. Last year we took a big step and moved to Oregon together into a very small apartment. We have both always considered ourselves biual but a few days ago he told me that for several months he only thinks about men and women just don't do it for him. He says he doesn't want to break up yet because he is not completly sure. We both are still emotionally very close and couldn't imagine our lives without eachother.
He has brought up several options such as "exploring with other people", "a period of separation" and even having a three way with another guy. Could any of this help? I am completely supportive of whatever decision he makes, but this is also a difficult time for me.
Another problem with this is, if he does "decide" he is completely , I don't really have anywhere to move to. I don't really know anyone else in the area, so he says that it would be ok for me to stay in the apartment. Is that a good idea? At least until I can support myself and get my own place?
Has anyone ever been in a situation similar to this? I could really use some advice, this is all very difficult and confusing for both of us.
He has brought up several options such as "exploring with other people", "a period of separation" and even having a three way with another guy. Could any of this help? I am completely supportive of whatever decision he makes, but this is also a difficult time for me.
Another problem with this is, if he does "decide" he is completely , I don't really have anywhere to move to. I don't really know anyone else in the area, so he says that it would be ok for me to stay in the apartment. Is that a good idea? At least until I can support myself and get my own place?
Has anyone ever been in a situation similar to this? I could really use some advice, this is all very difficult and confusing for both of us.