does he likes me

[prsawyer]

i met this guy in college and he approached me first and went out of his way for me to notice him. he flirted with me by asking a lot of questions like where i'm going to live after college , going to get married and have children after school too. were both shy , but if he knows i act shy he will not come on too strong but he's not an aggressive person he's very private. he would open the door and he always smiles and winks at me with his face all lit up except when his classmates are around he acts reserved and shy and whenever he would go to touch me on the back or arm and i would look at him, he would pull back and act really nervous. last semester i gave him a card and letter telling him how sweet and wonderful he is , which he liked very much. i also looked him over head to toe and he caught me and his manhood got excited which was embarassing. i do not see him as much this semester i have a busy schedule with work and school and his schedule is busy as well i just hope we will have a class together sometime cause right now were both in college and have very busy schedules but i do not want him to think i've lost interest i just try to be his friend and always give him a great big smile with my face all lit up cause he's worth the wait. do you think this guy likes me.

[Ricksta]

Judging from the way you describe the situation and his behaviour, I have good reason to believe that he is interested in you romantically, but still I cannot guarantee this because everybody is different when it comes to social interaction. Until you actually ask him though, you will never know for sure.

Why don't you just take the next step and ask him whether he is likes you or not? If you don't take a chance, nothing significant will surface. Opportunities are here for a reason and you must take it in order to make it.

It is up to you. Are in you willing to take a risk for love and is he worth it? You have to decide that for yourself.

[prsawyer]

i did give a card/ letter and told him how wonderful and sweet and the things he said and done for me made me feel special which he loved the card and letter. he is always talking to someone about school his classmates or doing his school work or going to class so i only see him in passing what few times so i could not ask him with a crowd of people around that would scare him away i would want to do this private seeing our schedules are different coffee and lunch is out of the question besides he has seen me eating lunch but will not come up to me and i will not go to him i just look at him instead he stares at me there is always a lot of people in the cafeteria and usually someone he knows and know is in there. i hope to have a class with him sometime so i could talk more to him.

[Ricksta]

Yes. I remember you telling me that a while ago and since writing letters is all you are willing to do, then the best solution for you to do is to write him another letter. It is important that you find a compromise in communication or else nothing is going to happen. I mean you cannot keep hoping and do nothing, you know?

[Timbowl2]

Being a card-carrying male, I can confirm he likes you. It's hard for a guy to show extreme emotions around his buddies. ask him to go have lunch, or see a movie and go from there

[prsawyer]

i did ask him to lunch during one of the semsters and he said yes. but we never got to go cause, he had to go see his family but he did appologize to me. maybe this coming semester if i have the chance i can ask him again to have lunch or coffee if i can ever see him when his friends are not around cause he gets really nervous and gets really quiet when he sees me and his friends are around. thanks for the advice.