Early Morning Phone Calls?

[lalagirl]

Last nigh, or should I say early this morning at exactly around 12:55-1:00am, my boyfriend got up to answer a call. It was short, and he was kinda only answering not really talking. Like saying yeah, yeap, nope, ok,ok. Kinda in code!!! He got off quickly and I asked who it was, he said his boss, (whos in Jamaica on holidays and hes drunk) His boss really does call him for fun when hes drunk. Anyways, for some reason after that I couldnt sleep and I coulda sworn I heard a wonams voice. So i waited till he fell asleep and checked his phone. Turned out it wasnt his boss, but a girl that he met weeks before (he told me about her and that they're friends)..shes supposed to helping him with a modelling gig, since shes amodel as well. He says she has a kid and not to worry cause shes not his type and he doesnt cheat). I was pissed cause since they are supposed to be friends--why would he lie and say its his boss? Also, why would she call so late/early if she knows he has a woman and that we both sleep/live togerther? Do u call ur friends at that time..what could she possibly have to tell him at that time??? I asked him again today about it, and he gave me the same story , that it was his boss. Am I crazy, or should I look more into this?

[eightball61]

Why is he helping models? Is this something he does as a job?

How do you know it was this girl if there was no voice-mail to hear her voice? Do you know her number by heart? Have you had a run-in before with this girl?


Can you please answer these questions so I have a better idea to both sides of the situation?

Thank You

[Diablo]

Guys will say it was the boss when a woman calls because we don't want a confrontation over a woman calling early in the morning. Assuming it was her, this could indicate that she's getting interested in him, but there may be nothing to it. Her feeling free to call knowing about you indicates that nothing is going on; otherwise, she be sneaking in her calls when you're not there rather than calling when she knows you're there. However, he needs to tell her that 12:00am is too damn late to call if it isn't an emergency.

[inquisitive]

I don't completely agree with you Diablo. I understand not wanting a confrontation, but if you have a trusting relationship then there shouldn't be one.

If he actually doesn't want her calling at that time he'd of gotten off the phone and said what the hell is she doing calling at this time, or something like that. Something to show he didn't want her calling, not a lie. A lie is never acceptable! He also could have told her right then and there that it was late and she shouldn't have called.

[Diablo]

Most people are a little out of sorts when woken up by a late night call. Perhaps he would have did as you suggested had he been more awake. Also, she might not have been calling over something trivial. They seem to be friends and she could have been calling with a real problem. I know, most late night calls are bs, but not all are and she is a friend.