Looking for advice

[SDEB]

I don't know if I'm getting the wrong idea or did someone made a pass at me.
I have been going to a new dental hygienist for five visits over about two months. She is really good ( I have been to several others for the same problem) and seems really friendly. Each visit she seems more open to me. I think I know more about her then my wife. She is getting a divorce and will be living on her own soon. She spends more time working on my teeth then I think she should. Extra polishing etc. On the third visit she greeted me in the waiting room by saying "hey you". On the fourth visit she was feeling and commenting on my shirt as she walked me to the exam room. Here's the thing, on the 5th visit I was switched to a different hygienist, she asked if that would be OK. After the new girl was done I was checking out and making the next appointment. The first girl, the original one I was seeing, came around the corner and seemed a little nervous. She asked me if the new girl was as good as her. I said of course not (what was I supposed to say). She then said she wanted to give me a hug for Christmas. I turned and said something to the secretary that was checking me out, essentially ignoring her. Then she said "well you can shake my hand for Merry Christmas" and put her hand out to me. When I put my hand out to her she pulled me to her and gave me a kiss. I'm not sure where she was aiming but I moved a little and she got me on the cheek. The secretary looked surprised and the hygienist left the room.
So is she just real freindly? Or is she up to something. She knows I'm married. I'm not sure how to handle this as I have never had anything like this happen to me. I also don't want to loose her as my hygienist, like I said she is good at what she does.

[Rich]

Yeah, she's interested in you.

Here's the deal. You can call the head dentist and talk about the issue. Ask the dentist if she is that way with all ofthe guy patients, or jsut you. You can say that she is very good, but that she makes you feel uncomfortable with her actions.

This is what will happen though. She will not be your hygenist anymore and she might get fired. At a mimimum she should get a reprimand from the head dentist. It's his office and he would be the one getting sued if she screws (up) with a patient.

She will probably be pissed at you, but you don't owe her anything, you're married.

Or you can try talking to her alone and tell her that, "no offense, but your over friendliness kinda makes me feel uncomfortable. I think that you're a great hygenist, but above and beyond that there's no interest on my part".

I still think though at the end of the day, she will be pissed at you and you'll be nervous that she'll hurt you, or make you feel some pain the next time that she works on your teeth and you'll feel uncomfortable going there.

[newmoonmagic]

Ahh, the stuff that Penthouse Magzine Letters to the Editor are made of.

I'm kinda curious as to why you have come to a forum board to ask if she made a pass at you. Whats with the curiostity, are you planning a counter attack or, do you plan on suing her for ual harrassment?

Anyway, regardless of her motive, she acted very unprofessional and If I was the owner of that practice, I'd fire her ass.

Tiss no wonder "she's getting a divorce" (if it's even true)

Skank alert: 9 out of a possible 10.