Is he really into me?

[Jacqueline26]

Hello everyone,

I am currently dating someone for the past month. We started out through internet conversations and then we met 2 weeks later. We have had 3 dates thus far...the third date being a visit to his home whereas he cooked for me because it was raining and not much else to do. I am kind of confused if he does really like me because he is a bit shy or maybe he is just not that interested in me. We have kissed and have shared many laughs. :p He has even said he feels comfortable when he talks to me. However, he never tells me romantic things...the only romantic thing has been the kissing and that he loves my long hair. He doesn't say I am attractive to him ...or something like that ...to let me know he is physically attracted to me. I am a 31 year old woman and he is a 30 year old man. I haven't dated in a while...so HELP. I could use some advise. We don't talk everyday...just every other day...is that correct when you like someone. :(

Jacqueline

[eightball61]

He definitly shows signs of liking you.....

I wouldn't jump on anything to soon. Your relationship is only about a month old and you only been on 3 dates. You both need to have more time together so this relationship can grow. You need also need to allow time to see how things pan out. Try to be patient and see what more he is about on upcoming dates.

Goodluck ;)

[AlexCrystal]

There is a book on the best seller list called
"He's just no that into you"
It talks alot about how guys are and what their actions really mean. I suggest go out and buy the book...it's a good read and it teaches you about how guys think in terms of dating...

[Rich]

Give it some more time and see what happens.

From talking to him, has this guy dated a lot? Maybe he doesn't know how to act with a woman. Maybe he's been hurt before and he's just being guarded right now.

You'd sort of need to give us more info on this guy.

Does he seem like a confident guy or does he lack self confidence?

Give us more.

[Howard]

Give this relationship some time to grow and you'll do well.Good Luck. :D

[Diablo]

Some guys are just shy romantically. I'd say things are going fairly well and you would be screwing up to try to hurry things along. Be patient; he shows signs of liking you as 8ball pointed out, he may not be in a hurry to jump into a heavy relationship and that's actually a wise policy. Give it time.