Cracklecake
01-07-2011, 01:07 AM
Hi everyone,
To give you a bit of background, I'm engaged to my man and we'll be married in the coming March. We've been together for three and a half years, and engaged for ten months.
He is the absolute, most certainly the best person I have ever met and I'm so thankful every day of my life. I love him so much, I couldn't bear to imagine life without him. We're a great couple and compliment each other very well - completely in sync you might say.
The issue that I have is that I'm not ually attracted to him? This sounds so strange because he is the epitome of my ideal man (on a physical level) - he's very attractive, very fit, broad shouldered, tall, and muscular. In the beginning we were like rabbits, as I'm sure most people can relate ;) but over the past few years, my interest in him ually has dwindled.
Don't get me wrong, I still have desires and fantasies and the like. The problem is, is that they just don't involve him! I'd never resort to cheating or betray him in any manner. I'm a very ual person, with thoughts and daydreams a lot of the time.
Do you have a similar experience, or advice? I've tried the usual having a few drinks, a nice meal and a dirty board game etc.
Thanks =)
To give you a bit of background, I'm engaged to my man and we'll be married in the coming March. We've been together for three and a half years, and engaged for ten months.
He is the absolute, most certainly the best person I have ever met and I'm so thankful every day of my life. I love him so much, I couldn't bear to imagine life without him. We're a great couple and compliment each other very well - completely in sync you might say.
The issue that I have is that I'm not ually attracted to him? This sounds so strange because he is the epitome of my ideal man (on a physical level) - he's very attractive, very fit, broad shouldered, tall, and muscular. In the beginning we were like rabbits, as I'm sure most people can relate ;) but over the past few years, my interest in him ually has dwindled.
Don't get me wrong, I still have desires and fantasies and the like. The problem is, is that they just don't involve him! I'd never resort to cheating or betray him in any manner. I'm a very ual person, with thoughts and daydreams a lot of the time.
Do you have a similar experience, or advice? I've tried the usual having a few drinks, a nice meal and a dirty board game etc.
Thanks =)