a very awkward situation. i need advice/help!

[bugeyes]

please delete this thread. thank you.
please delete this thread. thank you.
please delete this thread. thank you.

[eightball61]

I'm about to explode. What have I done?



What you have done is moved onto a relationship with
Isabel to see how things can work. You can't expect Mariana to sit around and wait for you while you are out seeing what you want. That right there is being selfish....

I am glad to hear that Mariana is trying to move on from this. You are not a bad guy because you were honest the whole time but at this point you can't expect someone to wait for you while you explore your options.

You are human and you are exploring what you want. She is human also and doing the same. You need to focus on you relationship with Isabel or end it. You are not being fair to her when you tell another girl you have feelings for her.

Right now, it shows you are not ready for a deep relationship. My suggestion is, you should get this jumping around fever out of your system now. When you are ready to settle down you wouldn't want to be telling another girls your feelings while being in a relationship.

[bugeyes]

I've learned from my mistake. I guess if I ended things with Isabel my life wouldn't be so hectic right now. Maybe through time Mariana will forgive me or something. I just wish she didn't have to see me do all of this to her.. because after seeing her with that guy i finally realized how horrible i've been to her.

thanks alot eightball

[eightball61]

because after seeing her with that guy i finally realized how horrible i've been to her.




Life is about taking risk & chances. We all learn from mistakes in these decisons. You realized your mistake after you found out Mariana is moving on. Your focus now should be the relationship with Isabel and you need to stop trying discussing your feeling to Mariana.

Mariana is trying to move on since you have moved on. You need except these changes and be fair to Isabel since she is your girlfriend. If you can't settle you feelings for both girls then maybe you need to take sometime away from this relationship with Isabel because your not being fair to her while you are trying to discuss your love to Mariana.

Goodluck and I hope it all works out for you:)