Confused on how i should feel?

[thomas86]

Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 5 months now and right now she is in Mexico for her senior trip. I talk to ger for about 5 min a day to see how she is doin and i dont have a problem at all with her goin to the clubs and dancin with guys at all and not a prob with drinkin. But i got a little bothered when she told me she was goin to the club tonight with her friends just wearin pants and a bra because it was Hollywood night in the club. She said if i trust her which i do, that i should not be bothered. Do you think its ok for me to get a little frusterated at this at all?

[eightball61]

Now is this Senior as is High School or College? I ask because I someone in high School can drink in Mexico. Anyhow, if it is High school I will be most suprised if they allow them to roam around freely because of the situation in Aruba.

There is not much you can do since she is in Mexico & you are here in the States. To me a bra is like a bikini top and if it bothers you that much then ask her to wear the bikini top instead. I know I would be feeling the way you do if my GF approached me with the subject but I'll need to find positives ways to get over it.

She is being honest and telling you the truth. I know you don't want guys looking at her but you have to accept that no matter what partner you date in your lifetime they will end up getting hit on by someone else.

I wish I had better advice to offer but hang in their guy :)