Married aand it love

[brian56]

Hi, I am new to this forum and have a relationship problem I would like to discuss. I am a 55 year old man married for 20 years. A 32 year old girl, the daughter of someone who I had dated 35 years ago and I have fallen in Love. She is married with four children and now lives in Dallas TX, while I live in NY. The feeling we have for each other are real and strong. We both agreed that we will have boundaries such as nothing ual just caressing kissing holding hands and a strong emotional bond.But we already broke the lip/french kissing rule. We skype everyday for hours and text or call several times a day. I will be going out to Texas, with my wife in May and then she and her family are coming here in July. I say things to her that I never said to my wife or any other girl, she says that I bring her happiness whenever she sees me or receive a text. When she was here this weekend we would be holding hands under the table or caressing each others legs. We sneak out for a quick kiss, throw kissed at each other and mouth the words I love you all weekend long. My question is "what am I doing and how wrong is it. I told her I would die for her but she came back with she would die for me. SHe is the 1st thing I think about when I wake up and the last before I fall off to sleep. She is always on my mind and I am on hers. I need some advice!

[Rich]

You should never leave your marraige for someone else, as there wil lalways be a "someone else".

Your marraige either works or doesn't work on its own merits. You only talk about this girl in this thread but not of your wife and the issues between you two.

Why are you looking to get out of your marraige? What's wrong with it?

[Diablo]

Also, is it love between you and this girl or do two want each other because you can't have each other? You know what they say about forbidden fruit. It's better to enjoy the woman you have than go off chasing other women. Other women can always look good to you, but it's not worth breaking up two families over. Usually, when someone gets to eat the forbidden fruit, they find it wasn't as good as they thought it would be. How wrong is it? What would your kids say if they knew? What would hers say? You need to snap out of it and try to rekindle something with your wife. Unless your wife will allow you a misstress and her husband will let her have an affair, this can only end badly.