Club party

[BabyBlue06]

undefinedundefinedundefined Every year my mom and stepdad go to a party. RMC(reading Motercycle club) It goes for the weekend and everyone gets drunk and takes off their clothing and stuff. Well my mom asked my boyfriend to go but I can't go because u have to be over 21. I had a fit about him seeing girls tits...which I have a right to have a fit about, but then I said that a couple of my older girlfriends are having a party and getting guys from the strip club to come and when I told him about the guys from the strip club he got pissed and hung up. Would I be wrong for telling him he can't go to RMC.

[someonesgirl]

Well, you cant exactly tell him he CANT go, but you are not at all in the wrong for feeling uncomfortable about it. Rather than saying, "I dont want you to go because I dont want you looking at other girls tits, and if you are going, than I can go to this party!" tell him, " I am NOT comfortable with you going to this event. I dont feel that it is appropriate for you to go because I dont like the fact that there will be other women there who will likely be of a "certain" mindset and that you are even considaring going to spite my feelings." But, if you tell him this DONT expect to go to your friends stripper party. Dont make a double standard. If he says, "Well, Im going anyways, ect...."
Just let him know that for him to go is against your better judgement and that you feel there will need to be some communication when he returns about the relationship and what bondaries there should or shouldnt be.

[allen]

If your boyfriend has a problem with you seeing males then you should let him know that if he chooses to go get drunk and with strangers that you have the right to do what you want.