destiny214
05-09-2004, 01:16 AM
My bf of 3 months broke up w/me regarding an email i sent him. It's like this... one particular night i was gonna go w/him to Burbank to hang w/his friends. But later on i decied not to go but i would like to spend alone time w/him. He said he's tired. so i got upset and he said he's sorry adn he'll call me later. 2 days later i was still upset and i sent him an email telling him that if he's too tired how come he drove himself all the way to Burbank to be w/his friends and without thinking i said things like he doesn't value his time w/me and he doesn/t have energy for me like he does w/his friends. I sad things that i did not mean and he got mad about it. we talked a week later and he said it's better if we should just stay friends for now. I apologized for what i did. I even sent him flowers. He pretty much decided that we should build a frienship first and be able to trust him to open to him. Iwanted to work things out but he said this is the only way we could work it out. I don't agree w/him but i respect his decision. He said he was hurt about the email and he said that i could have told him personally instead of reading it. I know it was a bad judgement on my part but does it take that much to break up w/me? He said he cares about me and i can call him if i want to have lunch or dinner w/him. But i don't know.should we stay away from each other for now?and give it time? Help!