What do u do when someone u love can be with u only if u have a job

[lonely1guy]

Well i just found out by my gf the reason she hasn't told her mom and rest of her famaily about me.It seems i must have a job no matter what in order for her to be with me.Being disable and have a income don't count i know im' ashame get that and want to work no matter how my leg is. :( I don't know what to do i try for jobs and noone is hiring and at least if they r it's not me.I love her and can't leave her .Im'just afraid im' going lose her if i don't have a job.I hope someone out there can help me.I need some good advice.

[MDeezy]

Love is share and expressed regardless of your financial status. Sadly it is not love if she's willing to leave you because you dont have a job. An if she cant understand that is harder for you having a disability, then as hard as it may be you two will eventually part ways. From your post the yellow flag of a gold digger is being thrown on the field.

[Howard]

My girlfriend said she will leave me if I don't please her by the end of this year by getting a job or she will start looking for other guys but I find that total bullshit! I just hope it's not true.If she never loved me for who I am then there's something wrong with her. :mad:

I wish you well Larry.I hope you don't lose her. :(

[lonely1guy]

Mdeezy that's true hope she understand on how she be with me no matter what.She put it in a odd way i guess thats a yes she be with me no matter what. Just hope thats true.Howard that was just plain wrong of her man saying she leave u abd find another guy. Hope she just joke with u man.Ill' be pissed off as well if i was told that.Sound like she spoil and i hope to u too howard u don't lose her.Maybe she change for the better soon.

[Howard]

Mdeezy that's true hope she understand on how she be with me no matter what.She put it in a odd way i guess thats a yes she be with me no matter what. Just hope thats true.Howard that was just plain wrong of her man saying she leave u abd find another guy. Hope she just joke with u man.Ill' be pissed off as well if i was told that.Sound like she spoil and i hope to u too howard u don't lose her.Maybe she change for the better soon.


She knows she's joking with me.I would never leave her and vice versa.I love her so much.She's the best thing that ever came into my life in 8 years. :)