Pregnant, Alone And Cheating

[jenny]

hi iwas wondering if anyone could advise me. im pregnant and only have 1 week to go to give birth. i split up with my cheating partner 5 mnths ago.

he has now got back in touch with me and wants to see the baby and see me. i was considering giving him another chance but just today found out he was with this girl, and few day ago was with another one. i feel so gutted and trapped, im really stressed and cant get over the fact that he is meeting other girls enjoying himself and trying to be normal with me aswel, and am sat at home 24/7.

i cant forget about him, hes on my mind all the time. i really want to get him back for cheating on me and messin up my life, but i dont know how. im so jealous and the thought of him sleeping with another girl i cant take it. please help me someone. i feel messed up i cry and i hate my life.

should i phone him and swear at him what shall i do?

[Diablo]

Calling him and giving him a cussin' won't really accomplish much. They say that living well is the best revenge and that applies here. You should let him go his way and you go yours. You would like to kick his butt, but that would make the situation worse. Just let it go. Things will be hard for you, but you can get through it and end up fairly well off. As for him, just forget him. He ain't worth it.

[eightball61]

This guy has cheated on you & beat you. You have made the best & safest decision for yourself & your daughter by leaving him. Getting him back will not make you any happier. It may settle your loneliness but he will still continue to hurt.

You have to keep reminding yourself that you left him for a reason. He has not yet even tried to prove himself. He is now calling because you are close to delivering. This screwed & you shouldn't have to put yourself back through that because you "feel" alone.

[ivy]

hi iwas wondering if anyone could advise me. im pregnant and only have 1 week to go to give birth. i split up with my cheating partner 5 mnths ago.

he has now got back in touch with me and wants to see the baby and see me. i was considering giving him another chance but just today found out he was with this girl, and few day ago was with another one. i feel so gutted and trapped, im really stressed and cant get over the fact that he is meeting other girls enjoying himself and trying to be normal with me aswel, and am sat at home 24/7.

i cant forget about him, hes on my mind all the time. i really want to get him back for cheating on me and messin up my life, but i dont know how. im so jealous and the thought of him sleeping with another girl i cant take it. please help me someone. i feel messed up i cry and i hate my life.

should i phone him and swear at him what shall i do?



Jenny, I know how your heart must be hurting over this jerk, but like Diablo said living well is the best revenge. You have a baby to think about. At this time it must be even harder because of your hormones and being so close to giving birth.

Thank God you found out what a cheating jerk this guy is. Give yourself some time to get back to normal after the birth of your baby. Enjoy your child.

Soon you will be able to be back out there and find yourself a nice guy who will be much better for you and your child. Make sure you either get child support from this guy or that he relinquishes his rights to this child.Make him pay through the legal system. If he doesn't want to do what you can to relinquish his rights to the child.

[Rich]

If you want to get back at him, then get all the child support that you can from him. If he doesn't pay, then he's a deadbeat dad and you can have him arrested.

DON'T take him back. If you do you're a fool.

If there's a guy that he doesn't like or hates, then name the child (if it's a boy) after that guy if you also like the name. That will eat at him.

Hitting him in the pocket will hurt him the most and it will be for the next 18-22 years.

[piratesmate]

PLEASE LISTEN TO RICH!

THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT I'D DO IN YOUR SITUATION!

This creep wants his cake and eat it too!

he can't have both!

You are better than he is!

Hit him in the pocket book! Men hate that! (sorry guys, no offense)