Girls suddenly changing minds?

[mike101]

This really awesome girl I started talking to a few weeks ago and we had some amazing conversations. She said some really romantic things about me and we both said we wanted to get together... we just couldn't at the moment because she was leaving for this camp in like 3 days and she had alot to do to prepare for it... so when she got back we were going to hang out and figure things out.

She comes back after being gone for a week and was weird and just said "I can't do this right now, I'm confused." It seems like while she was gone she just relaxed and enjoyed herself, and as far as I know there are no other guys she came across at this camp (it was all local people she already knew that were going to this particular camp). Why would a girl suddenly swap like that when right before she left we had an amazing talk and planned out what we were going to do... to her coming back all weird?

[Skye]

You are what you do.

Listen to the girl's actions.

She came back and changed because (before she left) she told you things you wanted to hear.

Perhaps you made her feel good, maybe she was lonely and wanted a companion, maybe all she wanted to do was talk.

The point is, she wasn't serious when she spoke to you. No conviction.

Look for depth of character and strength. It's clear, she's immature.

Move on.

[Skye]

One more thing.

Girls don't suddenly change minds. She was thinking about this for a while and found an opportunity (camp) to let you go.