I really like this guy please help ASAP

[sweetchick]

Okay.. I met this guy. He's not a friend, Aquantance, or anything like that. See I was at a carlot one day looking at a car with my sister and my neice and her boyfriend we went inside to ask about a honda that was for sell. When we left the building a guy came out and told me about a honda he was selling and gave me a peice of paper with all the information on it. (he didnt work there). So I went and looked at it and decided I wanted it. So I asked him to take some money down and hold it intill i got the rest he did. I got the car 2 days ago. He is nice not to mention hott. lol But everyone says he likes me. He'll txt me and joke around but in person everything is short and sweet. maybe he is nervous around me? I dunno CONFUSING. Last night I txt'd him to ask if he found his wallet cuz he lost it a couple of days ago and he didnt write back so my neice txtd him from my phone and said oh i c how it is cant txt me back must not like me anymore. apparently no reply. So today i txtd him and put sorry my neice txtd u last night shes dumb. and he put K. and then i put but did u find ur wallet. reply No. so i put do you want me to stop txtin u and he put No. Just very busy. I dunno if he likes me but I want to know. Its akward because were not friends or anything like that. so how do i apporch this? please help
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[eightball61]

If he busy there's nothing you can do about that. This is just a guy that you been texting a lot and nothing more. The last thing you want is for him to get annoyed of you.

Wait a few days, then text him again telling him to call you when he is not as busy so you both can catch up on things. After that point leave it up to him to make an effort to call. If he doesn't then you know he's not as interested as your friends thought he was.

[Girl]

Stop bothering him so much and have your niece stay out of it. He says you are free to send him messages, and continue with them if you so choose, just don't go overboard. Respect the fact that he is busy. He has no obligation to you.

[sweetchick]

I dont txt him all the time!!! I txt'd him that day and the day before. He usually txt's me first. I didnt ask how to change the fact that he is busy. I do respect that and that's why I havent txt'd him latley. My question for the forum was what should next because I like him and want to get to know him better!!!!

[Girl]

I dont txt him all the time!!!

No one here accused you of doing so.

I didnt ask how to change the fact that he is busy. I do respect that and that's why I havent txt'd him latley.

Respect it, as in realize he's busy and try not to take it personally (if you are) when he does not get back to you. Attribute that to him being busy.

My question for the forum was what should next because I like him and want to get to know him better!!!!

Perhaps next time he initiates a text message request if you two can speak on the phone.

or:

Wait a few days, then text him again telling him to call you when he is not as busy so you both can catch up on things. After that point leave it up to him to make an effort to call. If he doesn't then you know he's not as interested as your friends thought he was.

[martin120db]

Ok I almost fell out of my chair laughing.

stop trying so hard.

you got to play the game to win. So he is not going to chase you if you are giving it to him. So he is busy. ok

if you are not so available when he texts you next time then he will persue you. If he never texts you again dont take it personally, just know that you need to give the boys a little chase. let them chase you. learn from this. Go out now and enjoy the game.

[sweetchick]

Well everything worked out well.. Today he called and came over to change some stuff on the car and asked me to go out with him this weekend. Im happy!!! :)

[eightball61]

Well everything worked out well.. Today he called and came over to change some stuff on the car and asked me to go out with him this weekend. Im happy!!! :)


Hint: Next time don't over-react. If a person is busy then you need to respect that. If they don't contact you after a period of time then you know thats when to take the hint.

In the long run, I do hope things work out for you both ;)