He has gone overseas now what...

[totalsweety]

Okay i dont do this usually but I need help and to vent. My boyfriend who I love so much has gone overseas for a long time. He doesnt even know how long. I miss him so much it hurts. My house is empty without him in it.

Offically we didnt break up. We are kind of on a break type thing. If we find other people then thats it, Guess you could kind of call it an open relationship I suppose. but the thing is I dont want him to be with other people I want him back.

I cant sleep at night cause I'm to busy thinking about him. I just miss him. I guess I dont really know what kind of help I want. If anyone has been in this situation I would like to know though. I just need someone to talk to who knows what I"m going through and wont start telling me to leave him straight away.

[SweetyDee86]

Well, I'm not sure I like the idea of you and him already engaging in a "open relationship" if you guys love each other then you wouldn't even think for one moment of being in an open relationship or even mentioning the term...yuk i hate open relationships!
I've been in a very successful, online relationship and it's worked out great. If you guys love each other then you can always make overseas, online experiences work by being creative and romantic. However, if things start to get rough on both ends of the stick you might have to reconsider your relationship. I'm not telling you to break up RIGHT NOW but if you're having issues making it work online or overseas or whatever the case may be then you should seek other mates. But, he could be home sooner then you think so have faith that it won't be for too long and NEVER have doubts about your relationship. If you think he's cheating on you then it might lead to just that...Just be patient and let him do what is most important to him and have fun with the long distance experiences.