Need Some Help

Rockstar · 02-04-2010, 02:44 AM

Well, this is kinda a long story so bear with me. I am currently dating this girl who I've been friends with for over a year. I met her at work, but we never started seriously talking until a few months ago when I asked her out. Well, the thing is, we have never done anything sexually. Now, I know this is not the first thing that should be on my mind, but a few months has passed and all we have done was made out. It's kind of frustrating to me because I want to make our relationship more special by taking it to that next level. We have talked about it, but she says she doesn't want to rush even though she waited only a month with her ex. I respect her feelings, but she doesn't even like me seeing her with just her underwear or w/e on and goes to change in the other room....I feel like if she's not gonna let me see her like that, then how would we even have sex?

eightball61 · 02-08-2010, 10:39 PM

If she needs time then you need to "try" to be patient because if you're not then it will ruin things. if she not going the direction you want then maybe she's not for you.

smackie9 · 02-09-2010, 09:59 PM

Maybe she's one of those girls that waits for the "L" word to be heard before giving up the cookie. Kinda like you have to prove to her that you are worthy of having sex...oops I mean to make love to her.

02-04-2010, 02:44 AM	#1
Rockstar New Relationship Forums Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: CT Posts: 1	Need Some Help Well, this is kinda a long story so bear with me. I am currently dating this girl who I've been friends with for over a year. I met her at work, but we never started seriously talking until a few months ago when I asked her out. Well, the thing is, we have never done anything sexually. Now, I know this is not the first thing that should be on my mind, but a few months has passed and all we have done was made out. It's kind of frustrating to me because I want to make our relationship more special by taking it to that next level. We have talked about it, but she says she doesn't want to rush even though she waited only a month with her ex. I respect her feelings, but she doesn't even like me seeing her with just her underwear or w/e on and goes to change in the other room....I feel like if she's not gonna let me see her like that, then how would we even have sex?

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02-08-2010, 10:39 PM	#2
eightball61 Relationship Forums Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: USA Posts: 7,534	If she needs time then you need to "try" to be patient because if you're not then it will ruin things. if she not going the direction you want then maybe she's not for you.

02-09-2010, 09:59 PM	#3
smackie9 Relationship Forums Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: British Columbia, Canada the best place on earth! Posts: 3,251	Maybe she's one of those girls that waits for the "L" word to be heard before giving up the cookie. Kinda like you have to prove to her that you are worthy of having sex...oops I mean to make love to her.