Help ,i am planning ending me relationship of 3yrs

smart34 · 02-02-2010, 12:34 PM

can someone please advise me as I am planning ending me relationship of 3yrs because I have just lost total trust and confidence in a girl i sleep in same bed with, eat together and chat together but never knew she was keeping things from me. 2 days ago, i was at work and got a text from her, telling me that her mum was on a 18yrs flight on her way to the UK and that she will be driving 2 hrs to the airport to pick her.she never told me that her mum was coming to stay with us and just send a text .I had to rush down from work and take excuse and drove down to help pick her cos i didn't want her to drive long distance without my baby and she hasn't driven such distance before.

I am really upset and feel she would one day hurt me. infact, I feel one day she might want to take my baby away from the UK when i am off to work. I don't know what to do , don't know who to inform so that the baby is not taken away from me and the UK.I am uk and she is not. Do father win custody of children, it tend to be women only. In fact, if i cant get custody, i don't want the baby to be with her. please advise me and i just cant trust her anymore

we just had a baby 2 months ago. I love my son deeply and bath him, do all baby shores and i am deeply in the baby life

they had planned this about 2weeks ago. Trust is hard to build and i was really shocked cos i thought she tells me everything. Also i have not talked to her parants for like 9months cos when they ring, they speak to her and my step daughter. they never bother to ask of whom their daughter live with.Her mom too controlling.

Thanks

Rich · 02-08-2010, 01:04 PM

There has to be alot more to your mistrust then what you're telling us. Why are you in fear that she'll just up and leave with your baby?

Does your baby have a passport? I believe that you can put a block on your babies passport in that he can't leave the country without both parents approval.

cristian9854 · 07-20-2010, 07:49 PM

Something strange in your story. Anyway, how Rich said, you could block baby's passport. About divorce and baby custody you should talk with a lawyer.

02-02-2010, 12:34 PM	#1
smart34 New Relationship Forums Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: UK Posts: 1	Help ,i am planning ending me relationship of 3yrs can someone please advise me as I am planning ending me relationship of 3yrs because I have just lost total trust and confidence in a girl i sleep in same bed with, eat together and chat together but never knew she was keeping things from me. 2 days ago, i was at work and got a text from her, telling me that her mum was on a 18yrs flight on her way to the UK and that she will be driving 2 hrs to the airport to pick her.she never told me that her mum was coming to stay with us and just send a text .I had to rush down from work and take excuse and drove down to help pick her cos i didn't want her to drive long distance without my baby and she hasn't driven such distance before. I am really upset and feel she would one day hurt me. infact, I feel one day she might want to take my baby away from the UK when i am off to work. I don't know what to do , don't know who to inform so that the baby is not taken away from me and the UK.I am uk and she is not. Do father win custody of children, it tend to be women only. In fact, if i cant get custody, i don't want the baby to be with her. please advise me and i just cant trust her anymore we just had a baby 2 months ago. I love my son deeply and bath him, do all baby shores and i am deeply in the baby life they had planned this about 2weeks ago. Trust is hard to build and i was really shocked cos i thought she tells me everything. Also i have not talked to her parants for like 9months cos when they ring, they speak to her and my step daughter. they never bother to ask of whom their daughter live with.Her mom too controlling. Thanks

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02-08-2010, 01:04 PM	#2
Rich Relationship Forums Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 2,565	There has to be alot more to your mistrust then what you're telling us. Why are you in fear that she'll just up and leave with your baby? Does your baby have a passport? I believe that you can put a block on your babies passport in that he can't leave the country without both parents approval.

07-20-2010, 07:49 PM	#3
cristian9854 Relationship Forums Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: euROpe Posts: 19	Something strange in your story. Anyway, how Rich said, you could block baby's passport. About divorce and baby custody you should talk with a lawyer.